Start to See Your Own Beauty Today

It has become the norm in today's society to seewhen we work with our bodies than if we work
our flaws instead of our beauty. It seems likeagainst our bodies.
anytime anyone looks in the mirror anymore all theyNow is the time to reestablish your connection with
see is what they would change. They see loveyour body. Imagine that you had someone around
handles, they see flab, they see rolls, moles, andyou all the time telling you how awful you are, how
freckles. It seems that finding the good in one'sfat you are, that you are worthless, and that you
appearance has become an impossibility.aren't worth being taken care of. You were
It's sad really. We place the other people around usconstantly neglected by this person, and when ever
on pedestals, while we try to find a rock to hideyou did try to speak up, they shoved chocolate cake
behind. Then those of us who have managed to findinto you. Your body desperately wants to be heard.
the beauty within ourselves are considered vain andHowever, your body has become so used to the
self centered. This is most visible in Hollywood, weneglect and abuse that you dish out to it on a regular
pick apart the beauty of the most well known andbasis that it is shutting you out.
admired women in the world. But then what are weHow do you reestablish your connection with your
left with? If these women can be the subject ofbody? Start by listening to and honoring the signals
such scrutiny, with every flaw pointed out on theyour body gives you. Do you need to  sleep? Go to
pages of some tabloid magazine, what is thebed? Do you feel like getting fresh air and moving?
everyday woman left with?Go for a walk. Are you hungry? Eat something
Women, it's time to take back our strength and ouryummy and enjoy every bite. Are you not hungry?
beauty! No longer shall we be the victims of our ownThen don't eat that doughnut your coworker offered
self hatred. It's time to take action and learn to loveyou. Your body is constantly sending you signals that
ourselves. We women have an immensely powerfulindicate what it needs, start listening to these signals.
combination of strength and beauty within us and inThe more you listen, the easier these signals are to
our bodies. It's time to release our innate power tohear.
the world.Another way to reconnect with your body is to start
So how do you get to the point where you trulymoving it. For me, I connect best with my body
love who you are and the body that you live in? Youwhen I dance or do yoga. My body loves to dance,
take it one step at a time. Start by noticing at leastand the more I do it the happier my body and I are
one thing that you love about yourself every timetogether. It also tends to do good things for my
that you look in the mirror. It's there somewhere.waist line in fun and natural ways. For you, it may be
Maybe you'll find it in the color of your eyes, in thethat you connect with your body on your daily walk
curve of your shoulders, or the strength of youror run, playing tennis, or swimming. Discover your
thighs. It's there, and you'll find it.favorite way to move your body, and do it
The next step is to quit your diet. There is no quickconsistently. If you're not sure what activity your
fix that will suddenly have you wake up tomorrow atbody likes best than take some classes and try new
the size of your dreams. It's about loving yourself asthings. There is a physical activity out there that you
you are right now. If you're on a diet than you'reand your body will love to do together.
telling yourself that you need to lose weight, and theFinally, take the time and put care in the way that
more you tell yourself that you need to lose weightyou present yourself to the world. You treat your
the more weight you have to lose.body with respect when you honor it and dress it
Learn how to be healthy eating foods that you love.nicely. You already know that you feel vastly
Find a way to learn how to think and act like one ofdifferent when you walk out the door in your
those naturally thin women that have never countedfavorite outfit with your hair and makeup done, than
a calorie in their lives. You know the ones, you mayif you fall out of bed and throw the first thing on
have silently resented them your whole life and nowthat you see.
it's time to become one. Being naturally thin isFill your closet with clothes that you love and that
possible, and it is possible for you.you look good in. No matter what your current size
The next step is to treat your body like it is the loveis, there are clothes that you look good on you and
of your life. You want your best relationship in thethat you feel beautiful wearing. Make wearing these
world to be the one you have with your own body.clothes a daily activity and you will boost your
It's time to end the war we women have beenconfidence and the feelings of you own beauty.
raging on our bodies. We and our bodies want theImagine how different your days will go if you start
same thing, to be strong, healthy, energized, and atoff feeling like the goddess you are. Start today! 
our optimal size. We are far more likely to have thatYou deserve to feel beautiful right now.