Making it Work: Balancing Career and Family

cing a job and a family has always been a challengeprovide 40% of two-year-olds with 10 hours of free
for working parents. During the downturn, however,childcare a week on a means-tested basis.
this has become even more of a juggling act as payThe Press Association reports that more than 22,000
freezes, increased workloads and redundancies pileparents are calling on the government to abandon
extra pressure on parents’ time and earningthis plan.
capacity.According to Simon Moore, managing director of
A common obstacle that parents in the UK face is aComputershare Voucher Services, the UK’s
lack of flexibility in the workplace. According to alargest provider of vouchers, said the outrage
recent CBI study, only 20% of companies in theexpressed by working parents has been
country have family-friendly policies. The rest, it“phenomenal”.
seems, are focusing on the bottom line instead of"These vouchers are a real benefit to hundreds of
the individual needs of their staff.thousands of hardworking parents… I am not
UK labour law does give certain parents the right toat all surprised that parents are protesting against this
request flexible working, including those with childrencut,” he said.
under the age of six or disabled children under theWhile certain families are set to benefit from this
age of 18. However, employers are not obliged tomove, the remaining parents will have to reassess
agree to these requests, but must consider themtheir childcare options.
seriously, reports the BBC.Nanny-share schemes
New maternity and paternity leave lawsWhile most people believe that hiring a nanny is a
In order to provide more support for workingprivilege reserved for an elite few, a growing number
parents, the government is introducing new legislation,of working parents are defying this assumption by
which will give parents more choice and flexibility asentering into nanny share schemes. These involve
to how they use their leave.two or more families pooling the cost of hiring a
According to Harriet Harman, Minister for Women andnanny instead of sending their children to a nursery
Equality, mothers will be able to transfer the last sixor giving up work to care for them.
months of their maternity leave to the father, withThe nannies either share their hours between the
three months paid.families, or bring all the children together in the same
“This gives families radically more choice andhouse. This means parents pay less for the same
flexibility in how they balance work and care ofamount of childcare hours and nannies benefit from a
children, and enables fathers to play a bigger part inhigher combined income.
bringing up their children,” she said.According to the Guardian, agencies that specialise in
The scheme is due to start in April 2011. At present,matching nannies to a pair or group of families have
however, statutory maternity and paternityseen a boom in business during the downturn.
payments are less than the minimum wage, whichNannies are welcoming the trend, too. Lisa Wilkins, a
means a lot of fathers and mothers from low-incomenanny working in South London, said she prefers
households are going back to work sooner than theysharing her time between two families and added
would like.that a wider variety of families could now afford her
Working out of necessity rather than choiceservices.
The CBI reports that over 70% of mothers in the“More people can have the best type of care
UK return to work after taking maternity leave. Whilefor their child,” she said.
it could be said that these working mothersFiona Jull, a mother who lives in Wandsworth, opted
‘have it all’, a significant number offor a nanny-share arrangement when she returned to
them are choosing flexibility over job satisfaction.work.
In fact, a recent study by WorkingMums.co.uk found"I looked at having a nanny but realised it would cost
that a staggering 88% of mothers who work havehalf my salary, so I decided to share. I found a family
opted for roles below their skill level. Around 63%– through a website – around the
said they were putting their career aspirations on holdcorner. I drop my son off two days a week and he's
and choosing jobs that allow them more flexibility tohere two days a week,” she said.
balance work and family life.Are children of working parents at a disadvantage?
One respondent reported giving up a job as a financeAdding to the pressures of being a working parent is
manager after having her third child because shethe guilt that one’s children are not getting a
could not afford full-time childcare and her employerbalanced upbringing.
allowed no flexibility in her position. She now worksA recent study conducted by Institute of Child
for the same company as a part-time administrativeHealth, found that five-year-olds whose mothers
assistant.worked part- or full-time were more likely to
Others were more fortunate. One said that afterconsume sweetened drinks between meals, watch
taking an 8-year career break to concentrate onmore television, use their computers more often, and
being a mum, she found a job in her chosen field thatcatch a lift to school instead of walking or riding their
offered flexible hours.bikes when compared with those children who had
“I have also been approached by a previous‘stay-at-home moms’.
employer and have been able to negotiate a 1-day aProfessor Catherine Law, who led the study, told the
week equivalent on a consultancy basis,” sheBBC that fathers were not taken into account as
said.their employment levels had not changed, whereas
Family-focused workplacesthe numbers of working mothers had increased
As an alternative to flexible working hours, somesignificantly in recent years.
family-friendly workplaces offer on-site childcare"Our results do not imply that mothers should not
facilities, which allow their employees to follow theirwork. Rather they highlight the need for policies and
careers and still be there for their children.programmes to help support parents,” she
Vikki Grimes, a training manager at Microsoft, saidadded.
having her sons at her firm’s on-siteExperts have called for more research on the subject
crèche, which is just 50 yards from her desk,and numerous working mothers insist it is possible to
made her life easier.earn a living, feed one’s children healthy food
“They know where you are and if they needand ensure they exercise – all it requires is a
you, you can be there in seconds,” shehealthy attitude.
explained.Lorraine Candy, Editor-in-Chief of fashion magazine
American Express UK is another company withElle, believes that working parents raise well-balanced
on-site childcare and a family-friendly approach.children.
Around 30% of the company’s employees“I work in an industry populated with young
have flexible working arrangements and parents onpeople - many of them the proud produce of
staff benefit from enhanced pay for maternity,working mums. They are smart, ambitious, intelligent
paternity and adoption leave. As a result, the firmand grounded. They are inquisitive and engaged with
enjoys a return-to-work rate of almost 90% (upthe world. They are, above all,
from 75% in 2007), reports HR Magazine.super-confident… Many of those I work with
Today’s childcare optionscite their parents as role models, especially their
Around 340,000 parents in the UK currently benefitworking mums,” she said.
from tax breaks on childcare vouchers, which equateIt seems as if a significant number of mothers and
to a 31% saving on the first £243 spent onfathers in the UK are managing to earn a living and
childcare costs each month for basic rate taxpayers,find innovative ways to provide their children with all
or 51% for higher rate ones.the care, attention and guidance they need –
However, the government is planning to put an endand these working parents deserve more support
to this tax relief scheme by 2015. The reason forfrom their peers, employers and government.
ending the programme is to use the money to