| I wish I had a dollar for every time I
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| | point of hopelessness before I suceeded?
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| heard someone say that! When I ran a
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| | Well, my theory boils down to this: When
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| support group for my local infertility
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| | you lower your resistance, you make room
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| organization, practically every woman in
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| | for success. So what does that mean?
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| the group who got pregnant said that very
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| | When you want something so bad, and it's
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| thing.Infertility chips away at your self
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| | not happening, you focus more on what you
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| esteem and it makes you believe that
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| | don't have instead of what you do have or
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| you're unworthy of the most basic of
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| | what you want. You try to force things
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| human needs. If you've been struggling
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| | into place.When you finally give up, the
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| with infertility for over a year (or two
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| | flood gates open. Your dream starts
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| or three), you begin to believe that
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| | chasing you instead of the other way
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| getting pregnant is this impossible dream
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| | around. I've had so many people say, "You
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| - it's soooo way out there that you'll
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| | are so lucky to get pregnant naturally at
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| never achieve it. Well...it may be
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| | your age". Well... I have something to
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| helpful for you to know that almost
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| | say about that too. I truly believe that
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| everyone in your situation has felt that
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| | you make your own luck. Yes, getting
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| way.A couple of weeks before I found out
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| | pregnant naturally at the age of 44 with
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| I was pregnant with my daughter, I was
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| | only one tube had an element of luck, but
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| ready to throw in the towel. I told
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| | it probably had more to do with
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| everyone in the support group I was
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| | preparedness meeting opportunity. I had
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| moving on to childfree, and my husband
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| | refined my pregnancy protocol over six
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| and I started making some real plans for
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| | years and I think I had fine tuned my
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| the future. For the past six years our
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| | body to the point that I had a high
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| lives revolved around timing intercourse,
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| | liklihood of success give the right
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| taking pregnacy tests, having
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| | conditions.So when I say "If I can get
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| miscarriages (and sometimes surgery to
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| | pregnant, anyone can", I mean it.
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| remove them), and spending every waking
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| | Prepare your body, do everything you can
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| moment wondering if I had done everything
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| | to optimize your chances of conception,
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| possible to conceive.And then, just when
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| | then get out of the way! Don't try so
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| I had made peace with my decision to move
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| | hard that you sabotage your success.
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| on to childfree, the "impossible"
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| | Things will happen when the time it
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| happened - I was pregnant. Why is life
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| | right.
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| like that? Why did I have to get to the
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